Personality test: the figure you see first will tell you what you fear most in a relationship

Human beings spend falling in love and enjoying long-term and short-term relationships, but without a doubt those that have marked the most in our lives are the ones that have left us the longest defendant. And those that have lasted a long time have probably left positive marks (and others not so much) in our lives.

Some experiences can cause us strong sentimental wounds, but it is necessary to know how to differentiate what is really frightening us and that is why we bring you a test to find out.

To identify what really terrifies us in a relationship, you must observe the image and then go to the bottom so that you know the meaning.

1. The person who wears a cape. :

You dream of forging a powerful connection with that person who simply “understands” you and, at the same time, you are terrified of how vulnerable you would be if that person finally arrives. You know very well that in order to have a lasting relationship you will need to allow that person to see you for who you really are, but as much as that makes sense, it's a really scary thing to consider.

If you first saw the person in a cape when you looked at this image, the possibility that someone else knows you completely and authentically is what scares you.

Your fears don't have to stop you from finding love that lasts forever. Keep in mind that the natural way you approach life is by operating entirely within the defensive zone, let that person know this and adjust accordingly as you go. Mindfulness is the key.

2. The face:

It's not like you're a selfish person. You're a person who doesn't really like the idea of not being able to do exactly what you want when and how you want to do it, and, that's completely normal.

The secret that scares you in a relationship is your fear of prioritizing your partner's needs over your own.

However, if having a strong relationship with someone is important to you, you'll need to work a little to develop your emotional intelligence and maturity. Sure, taking care of yourself is important, but you can still do it taking into account the needs of this equally fabulous person you love.

3. The tree

Some people may not believe in the concept of extroverts and introverts, but you know it's real because when you don't have time for yourself, you become a totally different person. So, to be in a great relationship with someone, you often wonder if that person has to be with you all the time and if so they would have to know that side that no one else knows.

The cause of your relationship anxiety is to wonder if you will still have enough time to be alone.

If you fall in love with someone who understands you and really wants to be with you, they will understand your need for alone time. Don't let this kind of “what if” stop you from putting yourself out there and making a love connection that can really go the distance.

4. The moon

For some people, the beginning of a relationship is all about hope, new beginnings, and the future.

For you, however, the beginning of a relationship means questioning and seeing possible concerns, you spend reflecting on how much this will hurt you when it inevitably comes to an end. You desperately want to love and be loved, but you have a hard time believing that a happy ending is somewhere.

Your fear of having your heart broken beyond all hope of reparation is what scares you about relationships.

Don't let worries about what might happen stop you from seeking the kind of love you deserve. All stories have a beginning, a development and an end, but that doesn't mean they aren't worth telling. It's time for you to start enjoying yours.

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